People talk shit…it is simply a fact of life. Someone will always talk about you – if your doing good or bad or even not doing anything at all.
I find that you can build a lot of assumptions about a person this way. People tent to gossip about the negative and not so much the positive things people are doing. Misery loves company. Unhappy people tend to like being around other unhappy people.
I know there are people talking crap about me – I have heard people talk crap, although they may not have known that I knew. So what do you do?
Once I would have confronted the person directly. I don’t like people saying I said something I didn’t. Now I have changed. I simply back away…does this add to my personal happiness – sometimes. Sometimes it doesn’t. There are people I want to talk to, but I don’t. I miss them a lot and hope someday to be able to reconnect.
And you heard that from me.